10 Signs Your Cat Loves You — According to PetMed of Key West
Cats have a reputation for being independent, but anyone who’s lived with one knows they have their own unique ways of showing affection. At PetMed of Key West Veterinary Clinic in Dubuque, IA, we love helping cat owners understand feline body language — and recognize those subtle signs of love.
Here are 10 common ways your cat may be telling you they love you.
1. They Slow Blink at You
While there’s no scientific proof, many behaviorists believe a slow blink is a sign of comfort and trust. If your cat looks at you and slowly closes and opens their eyes, they may be expressing affection.
2. They Purr Around You
Purring is often (but not always) associated with contentment. When your cat curls up next to you and purrs, it’s a good sign they feel relaxed and happy in your company.
3. They Follow You From Room to Room
If your cat chooses to be near you — even if they’re not demanding attention — it’s a sign they enjoy your presence.
4. They Bring You “Gifts”
Cats sometimes bring their humans toys, or even prey like mice or insects, as part of their natural hunting behavior. It may be their way of sharing resources or “teaching” you how to hunt.
5. They Head-Butt or Rub Against You
This behavior, called bunting, deposits their scent on you. It’s a way of marking you as part of their social group.
6. They Knead on You
When a cat rhythmically pushes their paws into your lap or blanket, it’s usually a sign of comfort — a behavior left over from kittenhood.
7. They Sleep Near You (or on You)
Cats choose safe spots for sleep, and if that’s next to you — or on your lap — it means they trust you to keep them safe.
8. They Show You Their Belly
A cat exposing their belly is a sign they feel secure, though it’s not always an invitation for belly rubs!
9. They Meow at You
Cats rarely meow at other cats — they primarily use this vocalization to communicate with humans. If your cat “talks” to you, it’s a sign they’re trying to connect.
10. They Groom You
If your cat licks your hand, hair, or face, they may be showing social bonding behavior — just as they would with another cat they trust.
Strengthening Your Bond With Your Cat
Love from a cat often comes in subtle forms. Spending time together, playing, and respecting their boundaries helps build a relationship of trust.
Part of loving your cat is keeping them healthy — and that means regular check-ups, preventive care, and a safe home environment.
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